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		<title>Considering our Brokenness</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Martha Lynn Coon]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jun 2020 03:05:34 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Hello fellow travelers- What a time to be together, traveling forward towards what we hope will be a changed and more just world.&#160; So much is afoot it’s hard to keep up, and know what to share, as the rate of change is rapid and our place on the curve always moving.&#160; As the world&#8230;</p>
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<p>Hello fellow travelers-</p>



<p>What a time to be together, traveling forward towards what we hope will be a changed and more just world.&nbsp; So much is afoot it’s hard to keep up, and know what to share, as the rate of change is rapid and our place on the curve always moving.&nbsp; As the world opens, the news speaks much of the second wave of Coronavirus, which in itself presents waves of new decisions.&nbsp;<a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2020/06/09/well/live/coronavirus-rules-pandemic-infection-prevention.html?campaign_id=154&amp;emc=edit_cb_20200609&amp;instance_id=19244&amp;nl=coronavirus-briefing&amp;regi_id=133683112&amp;segment_id=30492&amp;te=1&amp;user_id=db7d5895c5332aadb94a0f7b02791b4b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">This article from one of my favorite reporters does a good job of laying out some markers and suggestions to consider as everyone confronts choices about how and when to engage in activities and when to exercise caution</a>.</p>



<p>And yet even as we “re-open,” so much of our brokenness is still laid bare.  Here are some voices and stories that instructed and inspired me this past week:</p>



<p><strong><u>LISTEN</u></strong><br><a rel="noreferrer noopener" href="https://www.texasstandard.org/stories/want-to-be-a-good-ally-its-about-listening/" target="_blank">*This article from the Texas Standard with filmmaker Ya’Ke Smith</a>, who recently became the first Associate Dean for Diversity and Inclusion at the Moody College for Communication at UT, was a great reminder of the centrality of listening as we learn to be better allies.  The article is excellent, and <a rel="noreferrer noopener" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CqviucsNGP4&amp;feature=youtu.be" target="_blank">I highly encourage you to watch Ya’Ke’s heartbreakingly beautiful short film “Dear Bruh.” </a> It’s quite short (9 minutes), but full of gorgeous images and personal text.</p>



<p><a rel="noreferrer noopener" href="https://bittersoutherner.com/2020/the-sound-and-the-fury-of-jericho-brown-pulitzer-the-tradition" target="_blank">*Listening to the Pulitzer Prize winning poet Jericho Brown share his wisdom, faith and experience in this article is a treat</a>, and his voice and perspective are both unique and powerful.  It’s a long article, so I won’t say more except GO FOR IT!  And<a rel="noreferrer noopener" href="https://youtu.be/xHlRw8c8pfEhttps:/youtu.be/xHlRw8c8pfE" target="_blank">the embedded video of him delivering his poem “Foreday”</a> is a total bonus.</p>



<p><strong><u>ENGAGE</u></strong></p>



<p>*This article about <a rel="noreferrer noopener" href="https://thebolditalic.com/where-do-i-donate-why-is-the-uprising-violent-should-i-go-protest-5cefeac37ef9" target="_blank">answering common questions from the White Community about the Black Lives Matter movement</a> is insightful and important.*NBC delivered <a rel="noreferrer noopener" href="https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/what-would-it-mean-defund-police-these-cities-offer-ideas-n1229266" target="_blank">this helpful piece that clarifies what “defunding the police” might look like</a>, providing examples from cities around the U.S. to address social issues directly and non-violently without police intervention when and where it’s unnecessary.<strong> <br></strong>*This young adult <a rel="noreferrer noopener" href="https://www.cnn.com/2020/06/09/us/ask-me-anything-sign-trnd/index.html" target="_blank">went right out and opened up a compassionate space for questions and dialogue here in Central Texas</a>.  His courage and kindness inspire me!</p>



<p><strong><u>EQUIP</u></strong></p>



<p>*This offering from the&nbsp;<a href="http://irresistible.org/podcast" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Irresistible Podcast</a>&nbsp;was so helpful to me last week as I try to understand what we are experiencing collectively right now.&nbsp;&nbsp;<a href="https://irresistible.org/podcast/63?blm_aid=20586497" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Roshi Joan Halifax does a beautiful job of sharing insights and learning about dealing with “Grief in a Time of Unknowing” and I highly recommend it.</a></p>



<p>*Immerse ourselves in stories that instruct us.&nbsp; The&nbsp;<a href="https://www.aaabookfest.org/festival" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Austin African-American Book Festival is coming up June 27<sup>th</sup></a>&nbsp;and has an amazing line-up which can be enjoyed from anywhere in its’ virtual format.</p>



<p>*<a rel="noreferrer noopener" href="https://www.nytimes.com/2019/05/29/books/review/antiracist-reading-list-ibram-x-kendi.html?utm_source=Glean&amp;utm_campaign=b1b876b9b6-EMAIL_CAMPAIGN_2020_05_27_07_59_COPY_01&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_term=0_08ce3539db-b1b876b9b6-85842107" target="_blank">Ibram X. Kendi shared this “Antiracist Reading List” almost exactly a year ago</a>, and the commentary that accompanies many selections is a beautiful study in how one constantly acknowledges bias and learns through the experience of others.</p>



<p><strong><u>HEAL</u></strong><br>*Our project centers on the lives and longings of young adults, and <a rel="noreferrer noopener" href="https://www.ifyc.org/article/bearing-witness?fbclid=IwAR1UF4MMGl3Yclid9tvysuXsazsieC50_-zmTEQOvNZfIszoz2uA8HLa7bU" target="_blank">this young voice rang out as clear as a bell to me this week, with such love, grace and wisdom. </a> Casey Jones, a student of religion in the Santa Barbara, shared a beautiful call and reminder to us about the importance of “bearing witness” and that to “hold brokenness and to be broken” is an essential stop on the road to the spiritual transformation required for healing. </p>



<p>*Many of us (as reflected in this piece from the LA Times) wish Oprah would re-consider a bid for the White House, but in the absence of that campaign,&nbsp;<a href="https://www.latimes.com/entertainment-arts/tv/story/2020-06-09/oprah-where-do-we-go-from-here-george-floyd-protests" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">I am so grateful she is offering this reflection which considers “Where Do We Go from Here?”</a>.&nbsp; It will air this week through multiple outlets (broadcast details are in the article).</p>



<p>*Let’s get outside as we can.&nbsp;&nbsp;<a href="https://onbeing.org/poetry/a-small-needful-fact/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Here is a stunning poem by Ross Gay</a>&nbsp;to leave all of us with some food for thought about “A Small Needful Fact.”</p>



<p>May we hold all these questions close, wonder at both the challenge of the work and the incredible possibility, and take courage on our way.</p>



<p>Grace and peace-&nbsp;</p>



<p>MLC</p>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Martha Lynn Coon]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2020 04:18:51 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Hello travelers! I hope this weekend was extended for many of you and an opportunity to rest your bodies and minds after an intense spring.  To mark the Memorial weekend, I’m structuring this email a bit differently.  Instead of including a contemplative practice and a creative idea, I’m including two articles I read over the&#8230;</p>
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<p>Hello travelers!</p>



<p>I hope this weekend was extended for many of you and an opportunity to rest your bodies and minds after an intense spring.  To mark the Memorial weekend, I’m structuring this email a bit differently.  Instead of including a contemplative practice and a creative idea, I’m including two articles I read over the past few weeks with reflections and ideas about how we grieve and memorialize loss in this extraordinary and particular time in our country’s history.  Here’s hoping we all have a moment to pause and reflect on those who gave their lives in service to our country in the past, as well as ways we can utilize our creativity to stand in solidarity with those facing the persistent sense of loss that is part of our current reality.  To that end, here is some food for thought:</p>



<p><strong><u>Practice Remembering</u></strong><br>*<a href="https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2020/05/11/reinventing-grief-in-an-era-of-enforced-isolation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">This New Yorker article did a beautiful job of sketching the difficult and painful reality of many families facing loss in the current COVID-related context</a>, particularly the challenge of grieving and processing loss from a distance.&nbsp; It’s a bit of an investment, so if you don’t have time to read the full article, this line in particular grabbed me for its honesty, simplicity, and hope: &nbsp;<em>“We are left to face this with what we have: our hearts, beating sadness and love, and our imaginations, this underused magical power.”&nbsp;</em></p>



<p>*<a rel="noreferrer noopener" href="https://stories.auntbertha.com/2020/05/11/profiles-from-the-pandemic-nettie-reynolds-and-katrina-shawgo/" target="_blank">This article about two local chaplains (and Austin Seminary grads) got me thinking about ways to emulate their work to support friends and family</a>currently grieving or struggling with loss during the pandemic.  I loved reading about their creative commitments to serve their clients from afar.</p>



<p><strong><u>Memorization/Meditation:<br></u></strong>In the spirit of Memorial Day, to keep our hearts and mind’s engaged:<br></p>



<p><strong>This week’s verse</strong>:&nbsp; “Do you see what this means—all these pioneers who blazed the way, all these veterans cheering us on? It means we’d better get on with it. Strip down, start running—and never quit!”&nbsp;(Hebrews 12:1 from Eugene Peterson’s&nbsp;The Message)<br><strong>This week’s poem:</strong>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<a href="https://songofamerica.net/song/ailey-baldwin-floyd-killens-and-mayfield/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">“Ailey, Baldwin, Floyd, Killens and Mayfield”</a>&nbsp;by Maya Angelou</p>



<p>And if you still have time left,&nbsp;<a href="https://www.history.com/news/memorial-day-civil-war-slavery-charleston" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">this article about what might be the first real celebration of Memorial Day was full of tenderness and tenacity</a>&nbsp;and is absolutely worth the read.&nbsp;</p>



<p>On that note, rest and rejuvenate and blessings on the week to come!</p>



<p>MLC</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://787collective.org/the-challenge-of-grieving/">The Challenge of Grieving</a> appeared first on <a href="https://787collective.org">787 Collective</a>.</p>
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